Maid Training

INTRODUCTION TO SISSY MAID TRAINING WITH YOUR MADAME

The aim of being or becoming a sissy maid is to serve diligently and obediently a dominant Madame to whom the sissy maid is submissive at all times. There is a substantial amount to be learned if the Madame is to be served well and these guidelines offer a preliminary outline of what is offered, although it should be stressed that each sissy maid is unique and her individual differences and preferences respected as long as they do not come into conflict with the above aim. Indeed, it may be possible to combine some aspects of Level One with some from Level Two, without Level One being completed, each to be recorded in the given logbook. It is usual for a sissy maid to experience embarrassment and humiliation at various times, as part of the ‘squirm’ factor of her chosen role. Partners are welcome to accompany you but must reside in their own room and there should be no familiar contact during your stay, in fact they will be treated by you as would any other visitor.

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Initial Assessment Interview

It is imperative that all potential sissy maids attend for an assessment interview, which is scheduled for up to one hour, although may be shorter depending on how the discussion progresses and whether or not some of what follows has already been covered in telephone conversations. It is quite probable that your time in sissy maid training will commence immediately afterwards.

The interview aims to provide a safe and confidential space for both parties to become acquainted and to freely explore the following:

· Prior experience, if any, of being a sissy maid and cross-dressing.

· The strength of the applicant’s desire to become a sissy maid and what this means to her.

· The applicant’s fantasy of what training may entail – meeting fantasy with the reality of the situation.

· An explanation of what will be made available during the applicant’s planned training and any options discussed.

· Types of possible discipline to be explained and agreed upon, and a safe word agreed.

· Any relevant health concerns and medication to be made clear.

Whether or not chastity is to be enforced – this is strongly recommended!

Training Programme Level One (Level two also available)

Initially, you should allow a minimum of two days to fully live as a sissy maid in training and to derive optimum benefit from the experience. It is impossible to give a definitive outline of your training, as it depends upon the individual’s experience and speed of learning. However, you may expect the following:

1. to be taught how to show respect to your Madame, including two types of curtsey, how to stand in her presence awaiting her instruction, and how to address her

2. to be awoken early by Nancy and, after breakfast taken in the kitchen, to start your chores for the day, seeking guidance from Nancy as appropriate in Madame’s absence

3. a range of cleaning chores will be expected of you, the requirements of each to be explained, which may cover: washing-up and tidying; dusting; polishing; vacuuming; cleaning bathrooms, washing and waxing floors; making beds etc.

4. serving at table, which in the first instance will include making fresh coffee and other beverages and serving them to those present, also serving cake, followed by clearing up afterwards

5. how to position yourself for discipline, how to accept it and how to show your gratitude afterwards

6. all meals to be taken in the kitchen unless directed otherwise

Charges for Sissy Maid Training and Additional Services Information

Full board £70 per approximate 24 hour period. One to one training and supervision, including discipline, £50 per hour. (Usually 4 hours required). Note that the input you will receive will always amount to more than that which you pay for.

Make-over £15

Hire or purchase of items referred to above – various.

Chastity may be agreed upon, there is a charge of £20 for being locked into chastity and unlocked before leaving by Madame; a CB3000 or similar or stainless steel device are available for hire at a charge of £10 per day. Although if you want longer term use, it is desirable to purchase one for yourself. Key holder service is available.

Counselling is available at a cost of £35 per hour’s session. If required, it is recommended that this be booked as early on in the training schedule as possible.

Approximately 200 photographs may be taken of you throughout your stay, presented on a CD Rom for £60.

Uniform

There are many different types of uniform available on the market, on offer from catering outlets or special sissy suppliers, supplying off-the-peg or made-to-measure outfits. A French maid’s outfit is not deemed suitable. It is not necessary to spend much money at this stage, but as time progresses you will probably want to become more ‘sissified’, for example by the wearing of a net petticoat. Initially, the minimum requirement comprises: a black knee length skirt; simple white blouse; black stockings, hold-ups or tights and sensible shoes, i.e. ones which are comfortable and with no more than a heel of 2 ½ inches. The denier of the hosiery must be such that any unsightly leg hairs are well covered. A hat or mop cap and apron are also required, as is an appropriate wig, i.e. one that does not interfere with you carrying out your duties. This last item may be omitted if the hair is of reasonable length and in good condition. If you are staying over, you will also need a nightdress.

Hair Removal

It is appropriate for a sissy maid to be feminised as far as possible. As a minimum, there must be no facial hair. The shaving, waxing etc. of legs, arms, chest and genitals is decided upon individually.

Make-up and Nails

What is used is a matter of personal choice. However, make-up should enhance the appearance of any sissy maid, whilst remaining discrete. A make-over can be offered to help you. Nails must be neat and tidy and to look as pretty as possible a clear or very pale pink lacquer may be worn.

Available for purchase or on hire from us:

A range of maid uniforms, including aprons and caps or hats. An interesting variety of wigs. Stockings and hold-ups, for purchase only.

Training Programme

The training currently offered is divided into two Levels, each requiring approximately four hours training and supervision and many more hours of service. Each Level will be certificated upon satisfactory completion of your logbook. You will receive a minimum of one hour’s training and supervision per day, more if you so wish (this may be pre-booked or established at the time of interview).